Be genuine, and make sure that your partner knows how important she is to you. Best case scenario, the women who you're not inside of picks up the slack and starts tending to you or the other woman. Which brings us to the next point. Don't do it in an over the top way, as if you're trying to hide how turned on you were by the other woman. Your body and the bedsheets will be covered though. Thanks to dating sites and appsfinding a third has gone from just hoping that you meet a willing partner at the bar to having a whole pool of potential thirds to choose from. Never given another guy a reach-around?
Ask any guy what's on his sex bucket list, and a threesome is likely the first bullet point.
7 things you should know before having a threesome
This seems entirely reasonable — especially if one is your partner and the other is a little less well-known. And if even if your lady is the one making the suggestion, it's likely a trap that you're walking right into. One chap I spoke to said he was having a ruddy lovely time with a couple, when the room started to fill up around them. But really, you're going to want to send your guest star home shortly after things are done. Obviously, whoever you ask to be your guest star is going to play a crucial role in whether or not this threesome is a solid experience.